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Becoming a Therapist: Jay Woods

6/5/2025

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Becoming a therapist wasn’t a decision I arrived at quickly. If you had asked me years ago, I would have found the idea surprising—unlikely, even. For many years, my professional life revolved around the law, where I developed an ability to think clearly, to analyze, to argue a position. It’s a career built around precision and certainty, but at some point, that certainty stopped feeling satisfying.

Therapy found me first as a client. Like most who come to therapy, I wasn’t sure what to expect or even whether it could help me. The experience was complex and messy. It didn’t always feel good. But therapy slowly offered something I had not found elsewhere: the chance to genuinely encounter myself, as confusing and uncomfortable as that often was. Through countless small moments of insight and struggle—more struggle than insight, to be honest—I began to notice tiny shifts in my patterns. It didn’t fix me. It gave me the ability to tolerate being unfixed.

Over time, that process shifted something deeper, too: the way I understood myself, my relationships, and my sense of possibility. I realized that the analytical thinking that had shaped my career as a lawyer could also help me understand the complexities of being human. I felt increasingly drawn to accompanying others as they explored their own complicated inner worlds, supporting them through moments when answers aren’t clear and the path ahead feels uncertain.

Now, as a therapist, my goal is not to help my clients reach a finish line or achieve a specific outcome. It’s to hold space as they come to terms with the quiet (and sometimes loud) internal battles we all face, and to offer gentle encouragement when growth feels stuck or impossible. Therapy is an invitation into curiosity, not certainty.

The truth is, I haven’t arrived. I’m still on my own therapeutic journey, continually humbled and enriched by the vulnerability and courage I witness every day. Therapy taught me the importance of patience and kindness toward myself, and that meaningful change doesn’t always announce itself with grand transformations. More often, it appears as a quiet willingness to keep showing up, day after day.


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